Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Indifference
What is it with people? Why are people so horribly insensitive? I just got back from getting Graham's haircut. For most parents of an almost 4 year old, this probably isn't a stressful situation. But for me, it is. I should have known better. I should have known not to try a new place without being able to transition Graham into it. Ironically, Graham's behavior wasn't out of line... the person cutting his hair was cold, impatient, but most of all, indifferent. I was mortified with her demeanor. I almost took him out mid-haircut, grabbed Grayson and left. I didn't though. Stupidly, I didn't want to "hurt" her feelings-- even though she was so indifferent to Graham. Am I always going to have to "screen" people and places? Am I always going to have to shield him from the indifference of those who won't look beyond the behaviors to the heart of an incredibly intelligent, sweet boy? Lord, help me if this is what You've called me to... I'm not sure I've got it in me-- so if this is it, You are going to have to provide. I hope tomorrow is better.
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Good grief! I think one of the main struggles with having autism is that you usually can't tell by looking at a person whether they have it or not. It can appear to just be a kid acting out. And so people don't realize they should be a little more patient and gentle. But come on! Even a 4 year old without autism is going to wiggle and squirm during a haircut! Sounds like she should have just been more gentle anyway. And maybe she was having a bad day, but still.
I'm sorry that it was so frustrating. I will pray that God lets you know when to shield and when to risk 'hurting' someone's feelings. I truly can't imagine. Praying for 'better' days ahead.
Um...tell me where this woman was and I'll go take care of it for you! Ugh...this just makes me mad! So sorry girl...praying for you.
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